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evin and Sarah have been dating seriously for about 6 months.
X.Both agree that they have a close relationship with a lot of warmth and support. After going to a romantic movie, Kevin and Sarah go back to Kevin's apartment and are in the middle of some pretty serious petting when Sarah says, "Kevin, if we are going to do it, I want you to use a condom. I have one in my purse." Kevin says, "Gosh, honey, are you serious? Don't you trust me? I mean, it's not as though I have AIDS or something." Sarah seems to be caught off guard and pauses for a moment before responding. "Kevin, I know how you feel about me, and I trust you, but a condom makes good sense because it is easy for anyone to pick up a sexually transmitted disease. Some of these diseases are hard to detect and even harder to cure, especially for women. I don't want to end up not being able to have children when I am ready to as a result of carelessness." Kevin quickly blurts, "But these things are so plastic. You know, Sarah, a guy doesn't feel anything if he wears one of those!" Sarah's voice carries a tinge of anger or bitterness. "Kevin, I wanted to make love with you, but now I feel you are just after your own pleasure and don't really care about the possible consequences for me. I'm the one who could get pregnant, I'm the one who has to get an abortion or carry the baby for 9 months, and in the end I am now the one who has to ask for a commonsense preventive measure that would protect both of us." Kevin's tone becomes disappointed but still angry. "Come on, and I'll take you home."
Text Box: 32This sketch of Kevin and Sarah's interaction provides us with an illustration of two people pursuing their self-interests. Kevin's self-interest is to maximize his sexual pleasure. Sarah's self-interest is to avoid the costs associated with unprotected sex. From this standpoint, often callekttilitarianismAoth Kevin and Sarah are acting rationally, but they are operatififiCn different values. The essence of utilitarian­ism is that individuals rationally weigh the rewards and costs associ­ated with behavioral choices. They choose those activities that maximize their rewards.
Utilitarianism is a philosophical perspective that has heavily influ­enced exchange theories in the social sciences. The central focus of exchange _is on motivation. Human beings are viewed as moti­vated out of self-interest. WEit does it mean to say t at utilitarianism fiRilses on motiVffiai-IF Motivation is what induces a person to act. The focus, therefore, is on tieperson and what propels that person to choose,a..particular action. Theories inspired by utilitarian thinking are based on the assumption of individual self-interest. This in turn means that we as social scientists can understand a person's actions by understanding the individual's interests or values. These interests allow the individual to account for both costs and rewards -and Make cVziiZg-th-arrrra5anuze the-aCto-r'Sutility or profit. ThebaSic notion, then, is thatrafioriira-ciorSCtioe a course of action that the ate si benefit.
Exchange thseaists usually explain the existence and endurance of social groups such as the family---yby theif-appeal to the self-interest of
membeitAiidiii-duals come together in groups so as to
their rewards. Of course, membership in social groups may also necessitate compromise and even costs to the individual member. If the costs of group membership exceed the rewards, then member­ship in the group is no longer a rational choice. Thus, the family group is usually conceptualized as a source of rewards for the indi­vidual members.

Intellectual Traditions
Utilitarian thinking refers to several varieties of theory. Some examples of utilitarian thinking are the ethical utilitarianism of the Epicureans and later Jeremy Bentham and John Stuart Mill, psychological hedo­nism, and the ideal utilitarianism of G. E. Moore. A complete picture of all the variants of utilitarian thinking would require volumes rather than pages. We direct our attention to the forms of utilitarian thinking found in the social sciences, particularly in the area of
family studies.
Among the varieties of philosophical utilitarian thinking are voluntaristic, or interest, theories of value. In these variants, great emphasis is placed on the unfettered choice of individuals. One of the

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originators of this perspective, Adam Smith, held an economic view of humankind based on the belief that people act rationally to maximize benefits, or utility. When choice was externally controlled or deter­mined, however, actors could not make rational choices. This view was the basis for laissez-faire economics and, in addition, much of the utilitarian theory in the social sciences today.
In current social science, utilitarian thinking is quite obvious in micro economic theory of the family (Becker, 1981), social psychology (Emerson, 1976; Homans, 1961; Nye, 1979), organizational sociology (Blau, 1964), and rational choice theory (Coleman, 1990; Hechter, 1987). There are major differences of emphasis among these authors, especially in how they unite individual motivation to macroscopic processes of reciprocity and social change. The focus of all these theories is on the rational utilitarianism of the individual, however.
Many of these theories have been termed exchange theories. This has led to some confusion with a group of theories that are structural and not at all focused on individual motivation. For example, the French anthropologists Claude Levi-Strauss (1969) and Marcel Mauss (1954) are often called exchange theorists, but their focus is on the institutional norm of reciprocity and the social functions of exchanges in terms of group solidarity and the formation of group alliances. Other theorists, such as John Scanzoni (1970) and Randall Collins (1975), have a conflict—resource orientation; they only marginally fit into our characterization of utilitarianism because of their additional emphasis on macroscopic structures. In the study of the family, utili­tarian thinking is generally referred to as exchange theory, and we follow this convention. However, it is certainly possible to argue that patterns of human motivation are responsible for the emergence of social structures to regulate those motivations.
In the contemporary study of the family, Ivan Nye (1978, 1979, 1980) has been a foremost proponent of exchange theory. Nye's (1979) formal propositional statement of exchange theory relied heavily on the social-psychological approach of his predecessors from psychology, Thibaut and Kelley (1959). Although Nye's (1979) version of utilitarianism does include the norm of reciprocity and group-level exchanges, these macrosocial concepts are not well integrated with the social-psychological utilitarianism that is his principal focus. Nye (1979) titles his chapter "Choice, Exchange, and the Family," thus emphasizing the voluntarist assumption guiding his version of utili­tarianism. To date, Nye's statement of utilitarianism applied to the family is the most thorough and ambitious. Although there have been more recent summaries of exchange theory (Sabatelli & Shehan, 1993), our characterization of the core of the theory takes into account the thoroughness and completeness of Nye's vision.
Focus and Scope Assumptions
The individual is real. The assumption that the individual ii real is technically referred to as methodological individualism. This assump­tion implies that groupphenomena, social structure, and the norma­tive culture are constructed by the actions of individualS.Thus, if we understand th`e adidifsThf-itrdiViduals, we will also understand these macrosocial phenomena. In regard to the family, this is an important and perhaps tenuous assumption. In exchange theory, the family is viewed-as -a-collection of individuals. But we are all aware that mate  selection, parenting, and many other family matters are regulated by both formal norms (laws) and informal ones. Regarding mate selec­tion, for example, laws in some jurisdictions forbid certain degrees of consanguinity, such as marriage with one's dead sister's husband (e.g., Province of Manitoba). Clearly, these laws are unjustified by contem­porary scientific understanding in genetics. How can these laws be understood solely as the result of the self-interest of individual actors and their self-interested behavior? This is the task set by the assump­tion of methodological individualism. James S. Coleman (1990), in the first chapter of his book Foundations of Social Theory, tackles this question from a utilitarian, or exchange, perspective. We recommend his discussion as supplying one of the best direct confrontations with the challenges of methodological individualism for the study of social
groups and institutions.
Prediction and understanding come about by understanding the indi­vidual actor's motivation. Many theorists who assume methodologi­cal individualism do not attempt to understand individuals' actions through motivation. Those who hold utilitarian and microexchange perspectives usually do, however. Although these theorists acknowl­edge that individuals are always constrained in their choices, within these constraints any choice can be understood as based on the actor's motivation rather than exogenous forces or constraints. In this sense, exchange theory is a voluntaristic theory in the same way in which Adam Smith's theory was voluntaristic. This insight led Nye (1979) to state that the basic theory is about choice (p. 4). Because families are a relatively long-lasting social group, the voluntaristic assumption leads exchange theorists to assume that families are rewarding to indi­vidual members. The fact that children do not voluntarily choose their parents may provide some difficulties for the theory, however.
Actors are motivated by self-interest. Even with the assumption that
the actor's motivation explains behavior, a theorist could still assume
that motivation is multidimensional or not conscious (as in the

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Text Box: •concept of subconscious) or founded on inherent drives such as those that Freud proposed. But microutilitarian exchange theories usually include the assumption that individuals are unilaterally motivated by self-interest; individuals seek things and relationships they regard as beneficial for themselves. The notion of self-interest raises some inter­esting questions regarding what we commonly know asraCruis Even some variants of ethical utilitarianism have been based on the assumption that we should act to accrue the greatest. good for the greatest number. But for family exchange theorists such as Nye (1979), collective interests and altruism are derived and explained by the self-interests Ofindividuals. So, although serf-interest is not neces­sariVilie-Falliaiarkof all forms of utilitarian thinking, it is a basic assumption in regard to exchange and choice theory.
Actors are rational. It is easy to agree with the assumption that actors are rational. All of us like to think that we are rational human beings. But how often do we stop and think about what it means to be rational? This is a more complex assumption than we initially might have thought.
To be rationalis to have the ability to calculate the ratio of costs to rewards. This is an analytic ability. One crucial dimenifon of ratio­nalityFs that it is the same for all actors. Any two rational actors in identical situations with identical values and identical information would necessarily reach the same result in their calculations and thus pursue the same behavior. This assumption of rational actors is as important for microeconomics as it is for choice and exchange theory because it allows the interchangeability of actors and the concept of general rational actors captured in notions like "the consumer."
The idea of rational actors evolved from the rationalist philoso­phies of the Age of Enlightenment. Many students will recall that the Enlightenment was characterized by a newfound confidence in the ability of humans to reason. What was meant by reason was deduc­tion or analytic thought. Such analytic thinking was believed to be independent of experience or sense data. Many philosophers, such as the French philosopher Rene Descartes, believed human rationality provided unequivocal knowledge that was true (quod erat demon-stratum). Indeed, the view of humans as rational actors originating in the work of Enlightenment philosophers such as John Locke provides much of the rationale for our current legal system. For example, juve­nile offenders are treated differently from adults because they are believed to have not yet fully developed the ability to calculate rewards and costs. The rational assumption also provided the basis for much of the economic theory of Adam Smith.
It is easy to confuse rationalism with other words that share the same root but have very different meanings. For instance, rational is not interchangeable with rationalization. A rationalization is an attempt to provide an apparently rational justification for one's behavior after the behavior occurred; it is not proof of a choice but rather a fabrica­tion after the fact. Later, we further discuss the ex post facto nature of rationalization, which critics of exchange theory raise as an objection.
Concepts s'
REWARD AND COST
A'reward is anything that is perceived as beneficial to an actor's interests. A simple way to conceptualize cost is as the inverse of reward. It is possible to conceptualize "costs" as the negative dimen­sion of rewards. It is also important, however, to include as costs or negative rewards the opportunities for rewards that might be missed or foregone that are associated with any specific choice. It would be naive to assume that the concepts of costs and rewards are unique to utilitarian theories. Certainly, Watsonian and later Skinnerian psychology emphasizes rewards and punishments. Although the basic notions are similar, the theories differ because the assumption of rationality is largely absent from these psychological theories. Indeed, behaviorists deny that conceptual processes need to be included in explanations of human behavior and posit that only behavioral patterns of stimulus and response need be examined. This view is at odds with the emphasis in exchange theory on rationality.
Microeconomics is focused on economic rewards and costs. Exchange and choice theorists view rewards and costs as being formulated from a much broader array of values than is used in economic theory. For example, Nye (1979), Blau (1964), and Foa and Foa (1980) each list six sources of rewards and costs, although each list includes some different sources. We consider these general sources of costs and rewards in greater depth below.
When we examine the basic concept of rewards more deeply, we find definitions referring to things or relationships that bring plea­sures, satisfactions, and gratifications. Such definitions come uncom­fortably close to a naive hedonistic calculus weighing pleasure and pain. Such a hedonistic view falls apart rapidly when the complexities of decisions are examined. For example, one may climb a mountain because it is gratifying, but it also involves risk and hardship. Indeed, it is doubtful that mountain climbers would find the task as gratifying if it did not contain the risk and hardship. Many of our most gratifying

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experiences are gratifying in part because not everyone is willing to undertake the hardship or risk.
PROFIT OR MAXIMIZING UTILITY
The notions of reward and cost alone do not explain behavior. If one attempts to explain that an actor behaves in a certain way because it is rewarding, the resulting explanation is overly simplistic and fails to account for the many elements that were rationally calculated by the actor. Indeed, reward and cost alone supply us with little other than a form of behaviorism.
It is the concept of profit, or utility, that allows the theory to avoid such criticisms. Profit is defined as the ratio of rewards to costs for any decision. Actors rationally calculate this ratio for all possible choices in a situation and then choose the action that they calculate will bring the greatest rewards or the least costs. Thus, the mountain climber weighs the rewards of climbing a mountain, such as the social approval of other climbers and the aesthetic enjoyment of the climb, against costs such as the risk of being killed or injured in a rockfall or avalanche. From this example, you can see that it is the notion of rational calculation of profit that makes exchange theory more than naive hedonism.
COMPARISON LEVEL (CL) AND
COMPARISON LEVEL FOR ALTERNATIVES (CL+)
In complex situations, the evaluation of profit available to an actor may be divided into two comparison levels. The first is the comparison (CL) of what others in your position have and how well you are doing relative to them. The second comparison (CL+) is how well you are doing relative to others outside of your position but in positions that supply an alternative or choice. For example, if instruc­tors at your university were given a 3% raise in salaries, they might ask how well they are doing relative to instructors at other universi­ties (CL). The second comparison they might make is how well they are doing relative to others in private enterprise and government with equivalent education and training (CL+).
The role of comparisons in the evaluation of choices has mainly been emphasized by Thibaut and Kelley (1959) and Nye (1979). This perceptual orientation is especially useful for family researchers want­ing to explain phenomena such as timing of children or the decision to divorce. The decision to divorce provides a good illustration of the two comparison levels. For example, a husband may compare (CL)
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his profit ratio for his marriage with what he perceives other husbands he knows are receiving in their marriages. The second level of com­parison (CL+) would be to compare his profit as a husband with the profit he perceives in other possible, unmarried positions, such as divorced and remarried husbands. According to the theory, if he were to calculate greater profit for an alternative position, he is more likely to choose a divorce.
For family researchers, evaluation levels represent one of the more attractive components of the theory because they allow us to under­stand changes of marital and family status. Comparison levels can be used to understand a choice such as divorce, and they can also be used to understand the degree of satisfaction or gratification an actor asso­ciates with an outcome. Sabatelli and Shehan (1993) propose that the notion of comparison level could help us understand why young couples with children experience lower marital satisfaction than couples in other stages of family life (e.g., Rollins & Feldman, 1970). Sabatelli and Shehan (1993) point out that couples with young children are in a period of family life that follows a stage (early marriage) marked by high satisfaction, thus constituting a high comparison level. Demands and expectations associated with child rearing take time and energy away from fulfilling the high marital expectations in the way they were satisfied before children. Hence, the comparison of present rewards with what one has previously received is linked to greater dissatisfaction with marriage.
RATIONALITY
We have previously discussed rationality as a basic assumption necessary for the calculation of the ratio of rewards to costs. If you think about things and relationships that you find rewarding in your life, however, you will probably notice that the value of these rewards changes with time and situation. In addition, you would surely note that not all rewards are equally weighted. For example, you might be thirsty and want a drink, but not all liquids that would quench your thirst are equally valuable (as any cola commercial attests). Further­more, the value of a reward may decrease as you gain more of it (mar­ginal utility); a dollar to a rich person has less value than a dollar to a poor person. To deal with the changing value of rewards and costs, it is necessary to add the idea of the importance, salience, or weight of alternatives. To understand any actor's choice as rational, we need to know what the person considers rewarding and costly, and, in addition, we have to know the relative weights (or salience) for each • of the rewards and each of the costs.

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A simple example might clarify this idea. Imagine that your family is trying to decide on a destination for a summer vacation. You have narrowed the choices down to backpacking in the backcountry near Jackson Hole, Wyoming, or visiting the campgrounds along the Oregon coast. To reach this stage, each family member has to compare the possible alternatives, such as taking individual vacations rather than a joint vacation. This is similar to the second comparison level, or what Thibaut and Kelley (1959) called the comparison level for alternatives. Is it a reward or cost to go on a family vacation? Do you enjoy being together, or is it more valuable to spend some time away from family members? After there is agreement that a family vacation is more valuable, the next step is to decide on the destination. Do you value hiking in the mountains or walking miles of uncluttered beaches? Do you want the adventure of backpacking or the more placid contentment of watching the Pacific Ocean? Are there activities for all family members in both spots? Each value, such as adventure and diversity of opportunities for other family members, is weighted by the importance or salience of this for you. Finally, you make a choice based on the maximization of profit for you. Of course, your family as a whole might choose the other alternative.
This example raises a critical question. How could a researcher ever examine the complex decisions of family members in one family, let alone a large sample of families? Certainly, the theory appears too cumbersome for a detailed accounting of rewards, costs, and relative weights for each individual, for every decision in each and every family. Exchange theory can be used in such investigations by making two assumptions. One assumption we have already discussed: Because actors are rational, they are interchangeable. This assumption means that given the same rewards, costs, and weights, any actor would make the same choice as any other. The second assumption is one we have not discussed in any detail. It is the assumption that for large numbers of actors, we can assess the rewards, costs, and weights as those that would be held by a modal, or average, actor. In other words, we assume that for most people in a social group or social system, rewards, costs, and weights are relatively uniform. There may be variation in how people look at rewards and costs, but there is great overall uniformity and little systematic variation.
EXCHANGES AND EQUITY
The rational weighing of costs and rewards in an unconstrained environment seldom happens in reality. Usually, we live in a social
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we may desire are dependent on the cooperation of others, or we may need to trade with others something we have of lower. value in exchange for something of higher value. This is an economic view of society. In most instances, maximizing profit entails exchanges with others. Social relationships that last over some period of time do so in part because they offer profits. A rational person is willing to incur some losses to maintain such profitable relationships. Marriage may be one such relationship, in which inequities at one point in time are tolerated because of the expectation of future rewards from the relationship. Certainly in families, vacations are planned not so as to optimize the profit for any individual but rather to distribute fairly and equitably rewards to all family members.
In a few exchange perspectives (Scanzoni, 1972; Sexton & Perlman, 1989; Walster & Walster, 1978), the principle of equity is viewed as being central to the maintenance of social relationships and groups. After all, siblings play together because of a set of negotiated and agreed-on exchanges perceived by them to be a fair exchange. Families decide on a vacation spot based not on any one individual's profit but on an equitable distribution of rewards for all members. Husbands and wives can be viewed as in a fair exchange situation, and when the situation becomes unfair or imbalanced, we expect divorce or separation. As we shall see later, marriages are seldom exactly equitable at any point in time, and some people may be so committed to marriage that inequity is not an issue. Indeed, if equity generally operated in marriage, we would not have so much literature on division of household labor in the family (e.g., Pina & Bengtson,
1993).
It is useful to keep in mind two precautions. First, equity can be defined as "fairness" or "justice," and relations do not need to be exactly equal to be fair or just but can be perceived to be so. Social norms in a given place and time may require inequality, such as women being expected to subordinate their self-interests for the good of men and children. So, it is possible that an unequal division of household labor is viewed as fair or equitable. Second, rationality may not be uniform across social actors. A person cannot know how rewarding or costly something is to others in a group, or what comparison levels other group members have, without adequate information and experience.
GENERALIZABLE SOURCES OF REWARDS
The concept of a set of general rewards and costs for actors in a specific social system is absolutely necessary if exchange theory is to be applied to groups and large numbers of people and families. Of

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course, some of the most interesting research questions are not about one family or person but about why people in general behave in a certain way. For instance, we may want to know why married couples delay childbearing or why people wait until their late 20s to get married. Examining why one person, say, Martha Jones, delayed marriage would not give us the answer we seek. Martha was hospitalized with a major disease from her 20th birthday until she was 30 years old. We doubt that this explains why most people delay marriage. The answer to our question would usually come from representative survey research using large numbers of respondents. If we attempt to explain our respondents' choices by maximization of profit, then the question arises as to how we can compute the ratio for all of these actors in our sample.
The notion of general sources of costs and rewards enables us to compute a general accounting of saliencies, costs, and rewards and to establish a general choice that would be most profitable for actors in a social system. Indeed, the relative stability of general costs and rewards in a social system allows actors to make rational decisions. Various theorists have proposed different general sources of rewards and costs. Homans (1961) originally emphasized social approval as the most general source of rewards and costs. Other theorists have felt a need for the inclusion of other sources. Blau (1964) proposed the social rewards and costs of personal attraction, social acceptance, social approval, instrumental services, respect, and power. Foa and Foa (1980) proposed love, status, services, goods, information, and money. Nye (1979) proposed social approval, autonomy, predictability/ ambiguity, security, agreement, and equality of resources. Nye makes the claim that many of these sources are culture free and may be used anywhere in the world, but he fails to tell us which ones have such universal generalizability. None of the exchange theorists have spent their energies addressing general salience weights for these general costs and rewards, but in specific applications they usually make an argument as to why one set of rewards or costs is more salient than another. Because salience may change dramatically with the situation, the question is perhaps best left open at the general theoretical level.
Because most social exchange theorists identify social approval as a reward or cost, we can use that source for a general example. Let's return to the question "Why do people delay marriage?" and see what kind of answer we can formulate according to exchange theory, using the broad category of social approval for rewards and costs. We must first postulate the profit linked to marriage. In North America, most people marry at least once. According to exchange theory, a rational actor would marry to maximize profit. We must all agree that marriage
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is socially approved more than alternative forms of relationships such as cohabitation, singlehood, and so on. Our parents, religious institu­tions, and political institutions view marriage as the appropriate relationship between coresident heterosexual adults.
It is not difficult to make the argument that social approval is one of the major reasons we marry. Why are young people delaying marriage? Very simply, marriage roles and responsibilities (especially pregnancy and child care) interfere with the social approval attached to other early life course expectations such as finishing education and getting started in a career. Today, as opposed to only a few decades ago, these educational and work expectations apply to both men and women. as sources of social approval. Thus, young men and women delay marriage so that they may first achieve these other socially approved statuses. After all, most of us had parents, teachers, and clergy who advised us to finish our education and get a job before getting married. Although there are many gaps in our explanation, it nonetheless serves to illustrate the way in which general sources of reward might be used to explain social patterns such as delay
of marriage.
Propositions
Exchange theorists explain individual and family phenomena by identifying general propositions that seem to cover the particular pheno­menon of interest. This is, of course, the procedure for all deductive theories. In the case of exchange theory, the number of general proposi­tions required for any explanation are few. According to theory, social phenomena can be explained with little conceptual and propositional baggage. When a theory leads to successful explanations with very little baggage, we call it parsimonious. This simplicity is seen as an asset in comparing competing theories. Let's examine the propositions called for in exchange theory.
Actors in a situation will choose whichever behavior maximizes profit.
The simplest and most powerful proposition in exchange theory is simply that an actor will choose the course of action that offers the greatest rewards relative to costs. One implication of this proposition 9. is that actors may not necessarily choose options that provide the greatest rewards if the costs are high relative to costs associated with other choices. A less rewarding option may be selected because the • costs are lower. This fact should caution us that unlike the case in

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behaviorism, in exchange theory profit rather than reward determines behavioral choices.
Actors in a situation in which there are no rewards seek to minimize costs (principle of least costs).
Some of you might ask, What if there are only potential costs in a situation and no rewards? The theory actually incorporates this con­cern but in an implicit rather than explicit way. Implicit in exchange theory is the concept of reward and cost being interchangeable because of the notion of calculation of profit. If profit is the ratio of rewards divided by costs, then clearly a fraction results when costs exceed rewards. Because division is the same operation as subtraction (the dividend is how many times you can subtract the denominator from the numerator), we can see that costs are mathematically equiv­alent to negative rewards. Indeed, a cost is a negative reward. Implicitly, then, the proposition regarding maximization of profit becomes the minimization of costs. This rule, or proposition, about minimization of costs can then be applied to the special case in which there are zero rewards but different costs associated with choices.
One of the more vexing problems for exchange theory has been the computation of long-term costs and rewards versus short-term costs and rewards. We give up many immediate rewards to achieve long-term rewards. For example, those who believe that a university education has the purpose of getting a good job might sacrifice 4 years of income while they are in a university, and many other immediate rewards, for what they perceive as higher rewards after they graduate. In a marriage, one spouse might pass up the satisfaction of making an angry response to an affront from the other spouse for the marriage to last over the longer term.
Compared with school groups and work groups, families are rel­atively lengthy in duration. The analysis of long-term rewards and costs is essential to understanding the behavior of its members. We can extrapolate two general propositions in this regard from Nye (1979, p. 6):
When immediate profits are equal, then actors choose according to which alternative provides the most profit in the long term.
and
When long-term profits are equal, then one chooses the alternative that provides the most profit in the short term.
These two propositions allow us to gain some perspective on the calculation of profit by interjecting time as a complicating variable. We still have to add the relative salience to the actor of immediate rather than deferred gratification. And of course, these propositions tend to provide guidelines for analysis rather than predictions, as it is doubtful that we would often encounter situations in which profits are equal.
The propositions in this section suggest that exchange theory is deterministic. If we knew all of the values and salience weights composing an actor's calculations, we could accurately predict the actor's choice and behavior in any given situation. The only obstacle to such accurate predictions would be errors in our measurements, which might lead us to speak in probabilities rather than necessities. Nonetheless, this is a causal perspective in which the actor's percep­tions, values, and calculation of profit compose the causal variables and the actor's choice and behavior are the effect variables. As a result of this strongly deterministic view, exchange theorists might, for example, argue that those actors, who choose to get married calculate that marriage is more rewarding than remaining single.
If people are basically selfish (motivated by self-interest), how is social order possible? In particular, how can family members cooper­ate, live in harmony, and invest themselves in each others' welfare? Exchange theorists tend to argue that individuals learn to increase the profits of others in order to increase their own profits. Thus, rela­tionships become bargaining processes, each party exchanging rewards valued by other parties. Bargaining can eventually lead to "contracts," or promises by each to mutually reward the other at acceptable costs to both. Over time, trust and commitment develop out of fair exchanges. We trust that the rewards we give to others will be reciprocated in due course, and we commit to enduring investment costs for the moment with the assurance that relationship partners will repay our investment. When a group such as a family has a stabi­lized pattern of exchanges, such that commitment, trust, and profit are operating to the mutual benefit of all, then a spokesperson for the group can engage in exchanges with spokespersons of other groups. So macro exchanges can be viewed as the bargaining process between or among groups.


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